The Way To Choose Music For A Romantic Date

April 3rd, 2009

It is hard to underestimate the role of the music in the life of every human being. Music may arise reminiscences, bring joy, or visa versa melancholy. Psychologists proved that effect of this or that melody is related to its rhythm and its correlation with the inner rhythm of a man.

But no any music will do for romantic dates or love games. In order to recognize partner’s mood, encourage him for a an intimacy make sure you know what kind of music he or she prefers to listen.

Psychologists attach stimulating effect to classical music by Beethoven, Mozart and others. As far as modern music is concerned many musicians are building their creative portfolios based rather on the sexuality of their music rather than on their musician images.

It makes sense to keep in memory that there is no universal music while your partner may loathe for example blues while many people may like it. And remember that music will not do everything instead of you – it is up to you how the things will be running.

So if you are planning candle light home evening choose pleasant slow music, it should neither irritate nor draw away. If the music goes with vocal it should relax, bring positive emotions. At the same time lullaby songs won’t do – it contains no stimulating accents that are usually evoked by the saxophone or guitar.

In case you are perplexed regarding what music to choose – let the silence serve you. Sounds made by yourselves might be the best accompaniment.   

Breaking Marriage Formula

March 18th, 2009

Scientists have invented a mathematic model that surprisingly accurately can predict if a marriage will break up or not. The formula developed by a team of researches (phychology expert and two applied mathematics specialists) allows to forecast with 94 percent of accuracy which couples will end up in divorce and which one will stay together.

John Gottman, psychologist of the CWU (Central Washington Univeristy, Ellensburg), says that a number of equations can predict if the marriage is going to be successful or not. It is enough to observe a couple’s discussion of a disputable issue concerning for example sex, money, children upbringing and it will be clear if the marriage is successful or not.

Partners are given points for positive and negative signals during the conversation, and the ratio of these points is very important in defining if the marriage is successful or not. 

Jokes, coquettish and tender gestures, smiles and soul intonation are counted for as positive signals, while rolled up eyes, sarcasm and other are counted for as negative signals. Ideal ratio is 5 positive signals vs 1 negative, it is quite possible that any couple that has a worse ratio will end up in trouble – reported Mr. Gottman during the meeting of the American association of science assistance in Seattle.

“Before the model was suggested we had no idea how to forecast probability of a husband and a wife, nor did we know how to carry our the analysis of the couples living together or divorced” – says Gottman. “When people speak about important matter they might argue at some points but at the same time smile and tease one another. Signs of affection are obvious, because partners have established emotional connection” 

Meanwhile many people do not know how to effectively communicate with one another, so the plausible reason of why people get divorced is because they do not know how to install emotional connections. Without the math model we would not be able to notice it. It gives an opportunity to describe the relations of the people and explain the forces behind it. Mathematics clearly demonstrates to us what is going on when people are interacting with one another.

The results of the research were based upon analysis of 700 just married couples from Seattle, who were observed after the marriage and for the further 10 years. Participants of the research were not informed about its results.

Escorts Industry in Germany

December 25th, 2008

In Germany escorts industry leveled in its social status to other professions in 2002. At the moment formally it is no worse than the job of a cook or a teacher. But German meticulousness and desire to keep to the law sometimes lead to curious amusing incidents. Thus 3 years after the corresponding law was adopted one of the unemployed German ladies turned to employment center. She was offered a position in one of the brothels. Having refused she lost her unemployment allowance: law is strict, but law is law. No less strict another decision of the government is observed: noone has the right to insult the dignity of an escort, it fraught with a trial.

In its annual report a minister of the family and a member of the Christian democratic party of Germany Van der Lien noticed that over 400 thousand escorts are legally working in the country. In 2006 the authorities of the country came to a conclusion that escorts are hiding their incomes and initiated the law aim at fighting such violations. Trade Unions revolted: in their opinion such a law would infringe on the women’s rights, since indeed they are not earning that much.

Another problem lies in the number of people engaged in the industry. Among the girls who prefer not to divulge kind of their occupation there are many Eastern European escorts immigrants. Their position is deplorable: conditions of the work are poor, girls are exploited and robbed, leave alone cases of deceitful escort industry involvement. Van der Lien suggested raising the age threshold of the escorts from 16 to 18 years as well as to implement criminal prosecution against clients of the escorts who do the job against their will. Where not knowing the law does not serve as a reason for the law not to be applied. Minister as sure: It is impossible not to notice signs of beatings on a girls body, her fear and uncertainty. “It is hardly possible that a man in this case would say “I was not aware”” – Van der Lien assumes.

First Date Guide

November 24th, 2008

Our life often runs in the home – work frames while both lads and girls try to find their “halves” at no particular success. Indeed, any meeting (particularly a happy one) is a lucky concatenation of whole set of circumstances. Certainly both young age and tameless desire to love take what they should. Guys and girls are summoned by one another like magnets: in clubs, busses, during lectures and in the office. A casual sight, word – and somebody’s phone is being noted, first date is appointed… Meetings happen at the skating rink, in the zoo, at some romantic town where one can roam along its streets, dropping in its cafes and bars for a casual talk.

There many ways to make a day unforgettable and at the same time non-committal in case people find no interest in continuing their acquaintance. Many people think that dating sites are only designed for loosers, but that is not true. Majority of visitors of such sites save a huge amount of time, money (no preliminary courting), or just looking for one night dating, mom-committal. Meanwhile have a look at some tips one may find useful at the first dating:

Attention boys:

· It is considered a gesture of politeness to pay the girl’s bill

· During the first date you need to tell a little about yourself, by chance learn her interests and views, smile and behave straight-forward and wittily, at the end of the date express your sympathy (if there is any) and make a hint you would not mind seeing her again.

· Flowers should ideally be given at the end of the date – you both learn her preferences and it looks spontaneous. Remember that it is not quite suitable to walk with a flower, if there is only one – it may look cheap, girls often tend to forget the lower on a bar’s table…

· If you invite a girl and hear in reply: “I do not want to date with anybody, I need a little bit of time to make myself out” – this would usually mean that a woman still suffers through her ex-relationships and is not interested in a new affair.

Attention girls:

· If he comes to the dating with his friend – it may look quite odd. Well, at least you will have a company for a drink or two.

· Sixth sense is telling you that your interlocutor is a morally immature person, windbag? Rely on it – your partner is probably just seeking for enjoyable pastime.

· If you really like the guy – do not wait until he calls, try to manage the situation. Otherwise it can turn into a wasted time.

· Do not build far-aheaded suggestions and long-term plans, it can hurt and be boring. A date or two does not mean you have serious relations.

· If a guy says he wants to take care of you – run. This will end up in you taking care of him.

The aim of the first date is a second date. If you like a man you will forgive him awkward pauses and irrelevant questions, since they could be caused by embarrassment and charm you radiate.

Men’ Toys Obsession

May 28th, 2008

Everybody knows that men are big boys. We can notice this in building relationship with opposite sex, in attitude to life and, of course, in toys’ mania. They are always trying to buy something “the best from the best”, but if at the age of six boys are satisfied with rather cheap things, at the age of 30 they are mad about more expensive toys. There are some examples:

Cars’ frenzy. Men are crazy about cars, especially about the most expensive cars. Some try to built it (Michael Arndt spent 6 years creating a full size replica of a McLaren F1 car using 956,000 matchsticks, 1686 tubes of glue and spending around 4000 pounds on it); others prefer to buy (today the most desirable car – a diamond car… And it’s not a joke. The car is cast in 18-karat white gold with the majority of the vehicle detailed with micro pave-set brilliant blue diamonds. Nice toy!). For all men buying or building cars is like buying or creating artworks.

Oh, my watch! Watches are almost the only piece of jewelry males wear. That is why they spend a lot of time on choosing the right one or two, three and so… In December 1999, one of the most expensive watches was sold for $11 million at Sotheby’s. This famous man’s toy was made by Patek Philippe. He spent three years to design and five year to produce it. When talking about expensive men watches, another the world famous example is Piaget Limelight Polo, huge model. Case, dial and bracelet in 18k white gold set with 498 baguette-cut 51.9 carats diamonds. And the price of this toy is $894,000.

Houses. England (north Surrey), 103 rooms, 58 acres, a private helipad, five swimming pools… just imagine this house. You can find this house at the list of “the priciest residences on the planet” which are for sale. So, if you have free 70 million pounds, this expensive toy can be yours.

Clothes. If you are thinking that only high class escorts have clothes mania you are mistaken. Nowadays men all over the world prefer to buy APO jeans with white or yellow gold button and rivets for $1,500, platinum button and rivets for $3,250, and the diamond button and rivets start at $4,000. And if a man wants to look more stylish in his new jeans, he is welcome to London stylist Lee Stafford. For 1,925 pounds he will cut your hair in a “couture style”.

Phone’s mania. The most expensive phone costs more than a Jaguar S-Type. Peter Aloisson, who creates this expensive toy said: “The people who buy my phones don’t have to worry about security - they all have bodyguards”. And it’s really so, if a man can buy Motorola with 1200 diamonds for 28,000 pounds, he needs to stay at home or to have bodyguards.

Escorts. If you have luxurious car, expensive house, watches with brilliants and do not have a special companion of equal stature, it means that you haven’t got anything. An elite escort should be not only attractive, sweet, chilly female with luxurious appeal, but also has great schooling and intelligent manners. Can you imagine how much money men can spend for a date with such an elite escort? 100, 1000 pounds per hour? It’s unbelievable, but the most expensive English escort was hired for a dinner date for 5500 pounds.

So, if men spend so much money on all these things, it means that they will never grow out of their toy obsession… Guys, please, do not go too far!

The Tall Men Can Turn Females’ Heads

April 17th, 2008

British escorts appear to be no different from any other species of humans when it comes to mate selection. And in this case height plays rather important role.

Research in today’s Nature by scientists in Poland and England suggests height itself plays an important role in turning a female’s head. A lot of experts, including James Gould of Princeton University, say there’s good evidence that the preference for height by female escorts, and long dorsal fins or tails by fish, is hard-wired in the brain and translates to good health. “When height is an indicator of health, this is not surprising, and if females are programmed to look for health, they would end up with taller males,” Gould says.”It’s entirely plausible this is true.”

Scientists from the University of Wroclaw in Poland studied 3,200 men (from 20 till 50 years old); whose average height was 5 feet 6 inches. The study shows that tall men have better education and are more likely to have family wealth.

Also some studies show that taller men are more likely to have children than shorter men and are more likely to be married (it’s very important fact for women). “Conversely, childless bachelors are significantly shorter than married men”, says Robin I. M. Dunbar of the University of Liverpool. “The more successful breeders were 1.2 inches taller on average than childless men, and those who were married were an inch taller on average than bachelors”.

According to the last researches 82% of women all around the world look for mates, who can provide survival and protection for both herself and her future family. In contrast 70% of men look for high class companions and the main choosing criteria is reproductive ability. So we come back in past, when women needed protecting and for female’s mind the best way of determining a man’s protection value is by how tall he is. Some women say that they feel safe, secure when even standing next to a taller man. Of course, there are also many reasons why escorts prefer tall men, for example women say it makes them feel more feminine next to a guy who is much taller than themselves, but the question of security is the most important for women in choosing partner.

Bobbi Low from the University of Michigan and author of Why Sex Matters, says: “Taller isn’t always better”. “The bottom line is men want healthy young women and women want healthy men with great resource potential.”

P.S.: The tallest ever man was American Robert Pershing Wadlow (Alton, Illinois) on 22 February 1918 and was last measured at 8ft 11.1in tall on 27 June, 1940.

The UK’s tallest man is Neil Fingleton, who was measured at 7ft 7.56ins at the Guinness World Records offices on January 29, 2007.

The former record holder is Mongolian Bao Xishun (China), who is 7’9” (2.36 meters).

He Pingping, 20 has applied to Guinness World Records to be recognized as the planet’s shortest person; he is just 73 cm, or about 2.4 feet tall.

London: Recreation Opportunities

April 11th, 2008

There are a lot of ways how can you spend unforgettable night in London. UK capital offers a great amount of opportunities for all visitors: children, teenagers, adults and people in ages. London has something to offer both hardcore party fans and those looking for a quiet drink and conversation.

You can visit Clapham High Street at night. This street has more to offer than just one club though. Sizing from Clapham North tube station right down to Clapham Common, there are high class restaurants and bars situated all along. If you are looking for hot crazy dancing or calm music, it’s definitely a great place where you can find all these things. It’s variety of tastes makes Clapham High Street so attractive and popular for visitors. I can’t but mention one more place - Soho district. This place is never going to be cheap; the world famous Soho district should be visited at least once by tourists because of its famous history and the fact that it is the remarkable historic center of London nightlife. Soho district offers a lot of luxurious bars and expensive restaurants to visitors. It remains however a wonderful mixture of chic and chicken-feed! For cost-cutting purposes you can try the Moon Under Water pub on Greek Street which offers low prise beer and additional fertilizing. This place doesn’t look so huge outside, but is big inside, so it is a great place to go in a larger funny group.

If you want to know all aspects of high class London’s night life, it’s better to be accompanied by a charming, attractive lady. Do you have one? Yes. Fantastic! No. Do not worry a lot; you can easily hire the best one. There are many ways how to find a perfect escort in London. But the most convenient and fastest way is to call to high class London escort agency with good reputation. Choose attentively when looking into an escort service and be sure that you are not getting yourself involved in something unsafe or illegal. If you do not know respectful London escort agencies, use Internet search or ask around your social circles for the names of reliable escort services that they used in the past.

Today, high class London escort services have a lot to offer to their captious, faultfinding, carping, nagging and hypercritical clients. All escorts of different nationalities - from East to West, with various characteristics – from blonde till redhead, even of sexual orientation, for usual and unusual occasions can be hired by them. Trying to get more desirable clients, elite London escorts agencies provide special opportunities. For example: luxurious apartment with all comfortable and modern equipment; list of not so much expensive, but high class bars, restaurants and saunas; even worldwide traveling. So, if a client has some special wishes, desires, dreams, there are no problems to full fill them using elite London escort services and his credit card.

Dominatrix Escorts

April 2nd, 2008

In modern society sadomasochism is rather popular appearance. Publishing houses issue a lot of women’s romances about sadomasochism. Fashion houses produce handcuffs with pastes, ping lashes, scourges and collars for sadomasochistic games. It’s easy to find a great variety of these things in any “normal” sex shop. You can also notice sadomasochistic influence in dating sites, there are many listings, ads like “Bondwoman is looking for master” or “Dominatrix escort will take a slave for upbringing” and so on.

There are three modern, the most popular stereotypes of dominatrix escorts: Dragon Lady, Madame Butterfly and Geisha Girl. These types of fetish most focus on Asian women.

Dragon Lady. This stereotype of the Dragon Lady was originally created by one of Hollywood’s first Asian American actresses, Anna May Wong. In her earliest movies, Ms. Wong is decked out in imposing headgear and long nails. She is the Dragon Lady - a hyper-sexualized and demonized characterization of Asian females. As a dominatrix, she is an escort who is in a sexually dominant role, which many men may perceive as a threat. This stereotype was first formed in the early twentieth century, at this time any hint of sadism and masochism is thought of as unnatural and perverted. But today in twenty first century, this rather normal and understandable way of expressing yourself. In any case, the Dragon Lady is hyper-sexualized. She is not a virginal wallflower. Instead, she is highly aware of her sexuality and wields it as a weapon.

Madame Butterfly. The stereotype of Madame Butterfly is the antithesis of the Dragon Lady. Firstly, the character of Madame Butterfly was created by John Luther Long. This stereotype is also described by other names, such as China Doll, Mama San and Lotus Blossom. If the Dragon Lady is a very strong escort, then Madame Butterfly is a submissive escort. She is passive and can usually be found in an unequal relationship with a man. The Madame Butterfly is pictured as a young escort who is submissive and whose role is to serve her male lover (client). Even when he is sexually unfaithful, she will be waiting for him with his slippers and dinner prepared.

Geisha Girl. It’s the most interesting, exiting, thrilling and really attractive stereotype since it’s something of a mixture of the Dragon Lady and Madame Butterfly. Geisha Girl is not quite as powerful as the former, she is not exactly as submissive as the latter. The most important thing is the stereotype of Geisha Girl is her sexuality and attractive look. If you have ever seen a movie where the elite Asian escorts are presented on-screen like temptresses, than you have seen the enactment of the Geisha Girl stereotype.

Sexologists used to say that sadomasochistic fantasies containing pain, about domination and submission are absolutely normal and every person even once in life had experienced them. Modern medicine explains sadomasochism and different fetishes as normal, full-fledged ways of expressing sexual wishes.

P.S.: Paris Hilton will be a part of new soap opera this fall, “Repo! The Genetic Opera,” a full-blown musical thriller where she will play a role of high class dominatrix escort. Let’s see!

Escorting: Full-Time Job, Habit or Despair

April 2nd, 2008

This article is for anyone who is thinking of becoming a London’s high class escort, or anyone who is already an escort and wants to improve her (his) business and make more money. There are some useful tips and secrets from established, well-paid and successful UK escorts. We give them to you, with the best wishes, we hope that you will prosper and stay safe in the escort industry.

Like in other industries, the market of intimate services has several segments. Street or bar girls, working independently or for high class London escort agency. There is a certain difference between an elite UK agency escort girl and an independent escort, of course. One part of that segment is occupied by the escort agency that provides lovely companions for social meetings and parties and cultural events. Nevertheless, in such cases it is not utterly advertised that these girls offer sexual services for money.

If a lady is working for a London escort agency, she has some advantages in contrast to an independent escort. High class UK escort agencies provide security, property and work for escorts. For example, an escort would be picked up by an agency driver and taken to her clients. If she wanted to know the specific meeting the man wanted, she would have to call him on her own beforehand; She would be paid from 100 till … an hour; The driver would wait outside until he received a call on his pager letting him know she was all right and had the money in her hand; But if she did not respond within 15 minutes when the agency called her for a “date” - she had to pay about 30 pounds. Escort agencies in the UK make their money by taking a percentage of the total of each escort booking they take. These percentages are understandable.

A lot of people are worrying that escorting is illegal industry. But, in real life it depends upon where you are and what you are doing. It is very possible to work in the escort industry completely legally in UK. Agencies and escorts define their own limits. At many agencies, the expectation is clear that escorts are to be very attractive, intelligent, well-educated and open-minded with their clients. Other agencies “claim” to fire any girl who steps over the line and insist that their escorts are paid only for their beauty and elite company. Some London escort agencies might say, “You can make 700 pounds an hour for just going out to fancy restaurants and exclusive expensive clubs.” But in really it can be another thing. Do not believe in everything. You need real information, not salesmanship. Try to find really good, professional, safe company with great reputation.

There is one more problem some people believe that escorting is bad job, it’s immoral. So many women all over the globe are pleasing men only to be discarded and mistreated, when they should be rewarded for the deeply rewarding services they provide. Women every day work hard for low wages, get laid off on a whim, get passed over for promotions and pay raises. Escorting can be a way to make one pound more and to build something for the future. Nowadays, when escort services are in great demand, escort business opportunities bring independence and solvency to many women who would otherwise be dependent.

If you are thinking that escorting destroying society, you are mistaken. Let’s see, escorts provide comfort and pleasure for people who are lonely and in need of moral support, human warmth. Escorts regularly provide high class companionship for traveling businessmen and men (sometimes women) who cannot find a partner. Elite London escorts also provide an expert and comforting first experience for many shy young customers, they can professionally help to educate and enliven people in the arts of love. And so on. Some escorts really believe that their job much more social than any other.

Escort Services: New Fashion?

April 1st, 2008

Imagine you are in the United Kingdom and you need to attend certain events or special occasions. There are two ways - attend the event by yourself and risk being bored out of your mind, or find elite high class escort to accompany you during that important event. You will agree, that the last one sounds much better.

How do clients contact escort agencies?

There are many ways how to find a perfect escort in London. But the most convenient one is Internet search. There are many UK escorts websites (escort directories, agencies), but it’s rather difficult to find an elite high class escort website. It is possible to choose one at random when you search through the Internet – however, there is a risk here that you may choose an illegitimate escort service. You should always take their advertisements with a grain of salt because it is very easy to make a claim about anything when you advertise through the Internet. Perhaps, it is best way to find an escort agency that is not only popularity, but one that is considered good escort service. But more secure way to choose one is to ask around your social circles for the names of reliable escort services that they used in the past.

How to choose a right companion?

Choosing a special elite escort is also not an easy task. Take a moment to think about the type of UK escort service and London escort you’re seeking. This will help you to narrow down the potential local services in your town or city. There may be some London escort services which require you to give advanced notice but there will still be some who can send over a high class, charming and magnificent escort with good manners and education within minutes from contacting the service. Some UK escort agencies will even ask you to specify the escort’s body type and physical characteristics that you need. For example, if you are a rather tall male, the last thing you need is for your height to be emphasized by a rather short gorgeous female escort as your date. The escort service has a wide enough range of types of escorts to provide (escorts by nationalities, by height, by hair, by age, by eyes, by sexual orientation and so on), so if you give the right specifications, characteristics then high class London escort agencies can find a suitable companion for you.

Also, elite London escorts can be either male or female, depending on whom you and your party, occasion, meeting needs in particular. If you do not want an escort who just stands near you with drink in hand, with an idiotic face; if your desirable escort is someone whose company you can enjoy, and who you can be proud to introduce to your friends and acquaintances, than you can ask for advance interview. A lot of UK escort agencies provide these services to their respectful clients. No matter what your preference is, you’re guaranteed to find something suiting your taste.

Payment and Privacy

Some London escort agencies require you to pay up a nominal sum of money before they will send your chosen escort for the event, meeting. It serves as a guarantee that they will not lose anything in case if you should suddenly cancel the meeting or change your mind in any way. And, of course, I believe the most important thing - choose an escort service which will protect your privacy in every possible way. Do not afraid to ask about their professional references or how long they are in escort industry. If these questions are not answered on their official website, feel free to contact London escort agencies directly for details. Some clients like to use pseudonyms when using London escorts so that their privacy is not compromised. The same thing follows when you pay with cash for escort services – so no one can trace the transaction back to you.